Jumping Daisy

>This was the second year that Leila was really excited about fireworks. Here she is with little Sidney Pfeiffer watching some at home fireworks. She even managed to stay up late enough to see the Coralville fireworks. I love fireworks, but they are even better now that Leila and I can sit together and ooh and aah over our favorites!

Resting up after a walk through the fossil gorge at Coralville Lake

Cassie helped Leila cool off 🙂

Such an easy going baby. It was 85 degrees and the sun was hot. We stuck on the sunhat and glasses, rubbed on some sun block and she fell asleep in the baby carrier! Look at that smile!

An attempt at the water fountain…too cute not to capture.

I think these boys need a sister! 🙂 Bryce and Eli really like Thea!

>make a baby look so grown up!

>One of the best things about being a mom to two…watching Thea’s face light up and her little legs kicking when she sees big sister come near. I only hope she learns from Leila how to be a smart, sweet, brave little girl who will play with any kid who will have her and doesn’t manage to pick up the stubbornness and tantrum throwing skills. I guess I should hope she doesn’t pick those things up from me either, huh?

>How you doin’?

She looks awfully cute in her bumbo seat…too bad her legs are too fat to sit in it for long. Her feet turn purple after a couple of minutes!

I bought a little floor gym at a garage sale, so far it is 3 dollars well spent. Leila likes to cheer Thea on as she attempts to lift her head during tummy time, and keep her company while she plays on her back too.

Makes a good sleeping mat too!

>I certainly do!! I have been blessed with an abundant supply of milk for my baby. Breastfeeding is something that I feel really good about doing for my children, and I know that I am giving my babies the best possible start in this world. Breast milk has shown to protect babies from all kinds of illnesses. In fact, when a mother is sick, she passes on the antibodies for her illness directly to her nursing infant to help and protect them from contracting the illness themselves.
Recent studies have shown that breastfed babies are even believed to have extra protection against childhood cancers. Another cool thing I recently learned about the boob juice…it has Stem cells in it! What an amazing substance.

Not to mention the benefits for me…reduced risk of both breast cancer and heart disease!

So, there actually is a point to this post. Because I am both blessed to have an abundant supply, and such a strong believer in the benefits of breastfeeding, I have decided to become a donor for the Mother’s milk bank of Iowa. The milk bank provides milk to premature babies, who are often too underdeveloped to be able to process infant formula. It also provides milk to infants with other special needs, and contributes milk to be tested for the kinds of studies that result in more evidence for the merits of breastfeeding.
I added a ticker to the sidebar of my blog to track the number of ounces I am able to donate, on top of exclusively breastfeeding Thea. Wish me luck! And for those of you that are skeeved out by the idea of sharing breast milk, I have been through blood tests to ensure my health and my milk is very carefully handled, pasteurized and tested for bacteria before it is given to any other baby.

Here is some more information about the Mother’s Milk bank of Iowa: http://www.uihealthcare.com/depts/uichildrenshospital/milkbank/index.html

>Our littlest hawkeye trying out the bumbo seat. Her legs are a bit on the chunky side and the bumbo was kind of a tight fit! 🙂 And yes, her toe nails are painted.

Leila and her Pop pop. She loves him bunches, and every time she wants something that I am not giving to her she tells me, “I’m gonna have my pop pop buy it for me!”

>Already!

>The week before Thea was born I was planning to keep working even though I was past my due date. As it turned out I just couldn’t handle it mentally anymore, or I may have lost it on some well meaning lady who couldn’t help herself but to ask me, “When are you going to have that baby?!”

I wrote my boss an email to explain to her that I thought I needed to give up until after my maternity leave. I felt really bad about it and offered to do work from home if she wanted me to, and she responded to tell me that first of all she understood and second of all, the only one pressuring me to work was me and not to worry about it.

Now that I am back at work, and trying to make the part time schedule successful, I am constantly reminding myself that I am the only one putting on the pressure. It’s true, but I have to remind myself of it. I am a people pleaser and I am not good at putting myself and my needs and my want to be home with my kids first. The truth is, I would feel a lot more comfortable and a lot less guilty if I was working full time, but I am a lot happier working part time. I am just not comfortable with being a special circumstance. Maybe less guilty isn’t true…I do remember the guilt of full time daycare too, and it also isn’t comfortable.

Now that I have Thea and she is such a good baby, about 70% of me wants to have a 3rd baby. Not now, but after Leila goes to kindergarten. The biggest reason I have for not having more kids…because I want to be able to give work all that is expected of me. If you can’t tell, Mommy-Tricia and Work-Tricia are definitely at odds. As it stands right now, I feel like I am balancing those things, but Work-Tricia is tapping her foot and asking, “When are we going to get back on track?” Mommy-Tricia is thinking lets keep this up for the next decade or so and keep on spitting out those beautiful babies!

I think it might already be time to review my post from a couple of months back to remind me of how hard it is when babies don’t sleep.

One thing I have learned…the best of both worlds doesn’t really exist. Even with an understanding employer and a wonderful care provider for my children, the tug of war continues to rage.

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Last night our friends Matt and Cindy brought their boys Bryce (3) and Elijah (1 1/2) up so we could take all of the kids to fun days. Fun Days is your typical community festival that they have here in North Liberty and last night was family appreciation night. It was so sweet to see how excited Bryce and Leila were to go to the carnival!
I so wish I had my camera with me 😦 Cory took a couple of pictures on his phone, if they turn out I will add them here so you can see how stinkin’ cute you little babies were sitting in the mini Ferris wheel. As soon as they got in Bryce started getting scared and Leila was surprisingly happy. (She is a big wiener when it comes to “danger”.) Once around and they were both yelling at the carnie that was manning the ride to let them off! 🙂
Leila loved the bounce house and was having a really good time checking out the rides. Then we came to the giant slide. It was one of those that you slide down a mat on to make you go faster. Leila really wanted to go on it. Now, knowing our Leila, and the fact that she won’t go down even the larger slides at our little playground, I had my doubts.
She picked up her burlap mat and swung it over her shoulder as she took off up the steps with confidence. I watched my little girl from the ground where she looked so tiny, like a little baby trying to play with the big kids, while at the same time she looked so grown up, independent and brave. She didn’t even ask her daddy to go with her on the slide, she was going to conquer this thing on her own! As I watched her climb the stairs I had a feeling of pride at her bravery and a giant smile on my face. Did I know this girl? I couldn’t help but wonder what was changing in my little one to make her turn into such a big kid so quickly, when it seems like just weeks ago she was clinging to my side and begging me to rescue her from the tiniest bits of adventure at the local park.
Leila reached the top of the slide and she took her mat down off of her shoulder, set it down at the top of the slide and turned around and started back down the stairs. I couldn’t help but laugh. Now that is my girl! 🙂
Cory ran up after her and helped her back up to retrieve the mat and then walked his baby girl all the way down the steps back to the safe and familiar ground. Maybe she isn’t totally grown up after all. I don’t mind.
After the slide experience we tried a couple more rides. One was a big maze that the kids could run through that included climbing a rope wall, and crossing a swinging bridge. After she started through the maze I noticed the swinging bridge. Leila does not do swinging bridges. Matt and Elijah went and saved our little princess and carried her down. We capped off the night with a ride on the little planes that go around in circles. Leila and Elijah enjoyed the ride, and as they flew around the circle I could hear Leila singing the theme song to her favorite cartoon…Little Einsteins. If you don’t know the show, it is 4 little kids that go on adventures in a rocket, that looked a bit like the little pink plane that our kids were riding on.
What a great night!

>This picture is hilarious…Leila’s first attempt at photography!

Leila holding her baby sister, also hilarious because Thea looks HUGE

Look at how adorable I am!?!?!

Leila wanted Thea to play playdoh with her…this was my solution. Cute baby feet x2!

If there were audio on this photo you would hear two kids banging away on the piano and Leila singing at the top of her lungs, “I want to be, part of that world!” (lately she rotates between 101 Dalmations and The Little Mermaid–She likes to kick it old school)

And once again, Look at how adorable I am!?!?!